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Think with a purpose

Think with a purpose!

To think is to exist. Or like how Rene Descartes finished it off in words, "I think. Therefore, I am." Indeed, what we think about usually forms the bulk of our reality, our existence.

But where the thinking gets is usually the problem and as a consequence, it often triggers emotions; a rollercoaster ride of emotions. Overthinking is one thing that can kill any relationships, be it between friends or lovers, because it often sneaks up TRUST. People, when confronted with situations, get stuck to their own thoughts or as if they run around circles with them. Some may call it "quits" without having to think well about it or some may dwell on it, mulling it over hours or days, feeling that they are giving the right amount of "check-up."

True enough that thinking is inevitable but overthinking is a whole different story. The problem with people is they tend to get lost in thinking that thoughts have purpose in themselves. (I, myself, am not an exception) But they do not! Or at the very least be given purpose and attention.

Steer your mind away from that which is pointless. Pointless in the sense that it consumes much of your time and energy when there is no issue at the first place. Don't go into pointless thinking. Go with practical thinking.

Sprinkle a bit of TRUST. Sometimes, it just takes to love more and think less. LOVE. I mean, SELFLESSLY LOVE. Choose to. Among the six types of love in psychology, AGAPE LOVE is simply described as to love with no conditions, no demands, no expectations. It may seem humanly impossible but after all that is why "ideals" exist...to give us an epitome to look up to. Love is a choice, isn't it?

Think with a purpose or risk wrenching your life with nonsense!


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